Wednesday, August 6, 2014

Stay Strong & Carry On

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by Melissa Kline

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It doesn't matter how many books you’ve written, which articles you’ve had published, how many literary awards you've won or what you current “status” is as a writer – we all feel insecure and uncertain when it comes to our writing.

The above is a spin on a quote that has always stuck with me – because it’s so very true! I am on the verge of publishing a third novel and my insides are wiggling and jiggling with nerves. Will whoever read it like it? Is it written good enough? Does it make sense? Will others “get” it? What if there’s a typo? Or God forbid a ton of mistakes?

I could go all day with the ridiculous thoughts that run through my mind at the thought of sharing a piece of myself with the world. But at the heart of it all, I simply want to be accepted, understood, validated and celebrated – just like the rest of us!

I had no idea I wanted to be a professional writer for most of my life. Writing to me was fun, entertaining and a form of escape. It wasn't until after the completion of my fifth novel that I realized I wanted to share my writing with the world. I had been writing my entire life, but up to that point all of my novels were private. There was something that occurred while writing that fifth book - a metamorphosis. Since then, I have been very passionate about sharing my writing with others…but that still doesn't mean it is easy!
Melissa's book Storm was a finalist in the 2013 Next Generation Indie Book Awards
 Regardless of all of these complicated nerves, feelings and emotions, it is so very important to stay positive, keep pushing on and believe in you. Try not to take criticism from publishers, editors, peers and family so personally. Everyone is going to have a different opinion and advice on what you should or shouldn't do. Stay true to yourself and your own ideals. Most importantly don't ever give up! You never know whom you might inspire or impress.

There is nothing in the world more humbling than writing. Stay strong, my friends and carry on!

16 comments:

  1. Yes, I think everyone is nervous when their book gets released. But we do have to stay strong. Good luck with yours.

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  2. Publishing your third book is very impressive. I think no matter how successful someone gets, though, there are always going to be some nerves and insecurity.

    Sarah Foster
    August IWSG Co-host

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    1. Thank you, Sarah! I appreciate the kind words.

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  3. Never give up was my mantra for a long time. And now after 40 years, it was worth it. So good to hear from you, Melissa!

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    1. Yay, Kathy! I am so very happy for you. You've always been a big inspiration. ;)

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  4. It will never be easy, but it will always be fun if you let it. Release that book!

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    1. Thanks, Alex! I am getting very excited!!!

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  5. "there is nothing in the world more humbling than writing" wow, so true! How vulnerable we are, when we release those little pieces of ourselves out into the world. How scary to know we will be judged, and maybe criticized, for our work. But bravery means being scared and acting anyway, and that is what you have done!
    Good luck with your novel, I wish you success and good reviews :)

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    1. Such wise words! Thank you, Amelia for the encouragement and support. I appreciate it!

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  6. Very inspiring and true. Thanks for the reminder!

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  7. Very inspiring post, and wonderful message.
    Juneta at Writer's Gambit

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